Wednesday, 5 June 2013
How to impress a girl
Many men fail to make a good impression on girls they want to be with, only because they don't know how to impress a girl. They mostly make an aggressive move to win the heart of a girl but really don't know it can get her turned off. As a matter of fact, impressing a girl is an art; the more you master it, the more you will get results coming out naturally.
You don't need at all to present a fake, over-pompous persona; instead , impress her naturally, and get her positive response and trust in return.
View a short video on how to impress a girl.
Tip 1: "Impress her with your personality"
Having a great personality and being relatable is a important part of getting a girl to like you. Let's face it: Girls look for different things in guys than guys look for in girls. So let the great parts of your personality shine through to work on fixing the parts of your personality that you don't like.
- Be funny : Girl's love funny guys. If you can make a girl laugh, then you have good shot making her fall in love with you. Practice jokes on your friends (guy-friends and girl-friends, because there's a difference of what they find funny) and keep the jokes that work and keep away the jokes that don't.
- Be playful : Studies have found that girls are attracted to guys who are playful.Being playful is attractive because it shows youthfulness and the ability to have fun. So find your inner child, throw away all the ideas about what you think you should and shouldn’t do, and play around, especially when you’re with her.
- Be interesting : Girls like guys who have interesting lives, and who do cool things for fun. As long as you’re passionate about something, and you get involved in doing that or learning about it, you’ll be more attractive in her eyes. No girl just wants to sit around and watch you play.
- Be mysterious : A little mystery goes a long way. Don’t let her in on every little thing you’re doing. Hint more than you usually do, and downplay things instead of being really excited. Mystery will make you a puzzle in her book, and she’ll want to solve you.
Tip 2: "Impress her with your brain, act smarter and mature than other idiots"
But don’t come off as a geek or nerd. If you REALLY want to impress her, be interested in her, find her fascinating, listen to her, encourage her to tell you what her opinion is about things, value her input and show sincere respect for her as a person. Do this.
Tip 3: "Impress her with your eye contact"
Girls love it when you have an intense eye contact. Wait, now don’t just stare. Learn how to impress a girl with your eyes. Converse through your eyes. Let your eyes tell her that you’re enjoying her company and you love being with her.
When you feel it, trust me, it shows. Concentrate on her face, however hard it is. You can stare at her awe-inspiring cleavage when she turns around to talk to her friend. Involve yourself in the conversation, and add in a few nods every now and then, and let her know that you’re totally interested in the conversation.
Tip 4: "Be the guy who every one sits around and listen to"
Be the all around guy. Be able to talk to the goths, jocks, popular kids, geeks, and everyone else. She will feel way more comfortable around you knowing that you are cool with everyone you know, instead of being the geek in the back of the classroom who has no friends.
Tip 5: "Make her feel really comfortable around you"
Make sure that she knows that she is able to come to you with any problems that she might be having in her life. Also, make sure that she knows that not only can you listen to her problems, but you can also solve her problems, or maybe at least just come up with ideas to help her solve them. Be warned, however. Offering advice is one thing, but girls don’t talk about their problems to someone because they want that person to try and solve them all. They want someone who will listen, first and foremost.
Tip 6: "Say 'I like you' first then ask her out to a movie or to lunch"
If she feels the same way that you feel about her, then she will most likely say yes. Girls usually think that the guy will make the first move, so ask her out whenever you feel like she’s close to you.
At this time she feels that you are the one who made her happy outside.Don't take her out and stay for longer she feels uneasy, after the time let her go home.
Tip 7: "Can you touch a girl?"
Obviously you can. But don’t. Unless you want to be charged for groping an innocent girl in public. There’s a right time to touch and a time when you pretend she’s an 11,000 volt live wire. She might not show her displeasure when you mildly molest her (by touching this girl, you’re doing just that).
But I can assure you that if she doesn’t like it when you touch her, this could be the last conversation you would ever have with this girl.
Tip 8: "Find out what you both have in common, and make sure that she knows that you two have the same like and dislikes."
Tip 9: "Never try to be physical with her"
She might get uncomfortable and get scared away, because she might thought that you are close to her only for this purpose.
You may touch her but it depends on the situation you are in, like while watching a horror movie, while afraid of something etc..,
Tip 10: "Know the latest fashions, trends, music, movies, and tv shows"
Pick up a newspaper or a magazine and read through all of the sections. Get a general knowledge of what is going on in today’s teen world so you will have a lot to talk about. Discuss the matter which you read in newspaper or magazine but it should make her interesting.
Tip 11: "Asking Her Out On A Date"
- Wrong way : "Hey, would you want to go on a movie-date with me next weekend?" She might be a little put off that you're asking her on a date.
- Right way : "Hey, I got two tickets to that movie that we were talking about last week, would you want to go with me?" If she asks you whether it's a date, then you can say "yes." You'll have a lot more success asking for a date if you don't call it a date.
Tip 12:"The little signs that show she’s impressed"
There are these little signs she shows you that can pretty much be understood as a Go signal to touch her occasionally, and that you’ve done a good job brushing up your skills on how to impress a girl.
Now that you have skills to impress a girl.♥ ♥
How to get rid of pimples
Pimples are normal skin condition that many people suffer from. This is kind of inflammation of the skin where the sebaceous glands (oil glands) present on the skin get infected with bacteria, swell up, and get pus. Excessive sebum secretion by the oil glands is the main reason behind this problem. It generally occurs at face, neck, back and shoulders. Though not a critical condition, pimples can make the life of people miserable due to its appearance.In the market there are a lot of lotions and medicines for the treatment of pimples but it can take time. However, there are many natural methods that are effective in treating pimples within a very short time period.
1.ICE
Ice can be used to quickly get rid of pimples as it helps in improving the blood circulation and in freezing the skin pores and removing the dirt and oil accumulated on the skin. You can either use ice cubes or crushed ice for the treatment as per your convenience. Take the ice and wrap it in a piece of cloth and then apply it on the affected skin area for a few seconds. Again repeat the process in a few minutes. When ice is used repeatedly on the pimples throughout the day, it helps in reducing the inflammation or swelling and will immediately soothe your skin.2.Lemon
Another quick way to get rid of pimples is the use of lemon juice. The Vitamin C present in the lemon helps the pimples to disappear quickly. When fresh lemon juice is applied on the pimples with the help of aclean cotton swab before going to bed, it helps the pimples to dry faster. For this remedy you need to use fresh lemon juice only and not the one having preservatives. Another option is to make a paste by adding one tablespoon of lemon juice to one teaspoon of cinnamon powder and then apply it on the pimples overnight. Next morning wash the skin properly with lukewarm water. However, this particular remedy is not suitable for those having sensitive skin.3.Honey
Honey is another natural ingredient that can help in getting rid of pimples very quickly. The antibiotics present in honey will fasten the healing process as well as it will help in preventing infection. Simply apply some honey directly on the affected area with the help of a clean cotton swab and leave for half an hour. Finally wash the skin properly with lukewarm water. Another option is to mix honey and cinnamon together to make a paste and then apply it over the pimples before going to bed. Next morning there will be less inflammation or swelling. Try to wash the skin properly with cold water.4.Toothpaste
The toothpaste that you use every morning to clean your teeth can also be used to treat pimples very fast. For the treatment of pimple you must use the white toothpaste and avoid using the gel one. Apply some white toothpaste over the affected skin area before going to bed. Next morning after washing your face with water you can notice a significant improvement in the swelling. If you wish you can even repeat the process in the day time also. But this remedy should be followed after the ice remedy. Also you must make sure that the toothpaste remains on the pimples for at least half an hour.5.Steam
Steaming is really good for your skin when you are suffering from pimples. When you take steam, your skin pores will open and allow your skin to breath. This will help the skin to get rid of oils, dirt and bacteria trapped in the skin pores which can even cause infection or inflammation. For steam therapy, take a large container and fill it with hot water and allow the steam to come in contact with your face for a few minutes. Finally rinse your face with lukewarm water and after drying your face apply some oil free moisturizer to help in maintaining the moisture level of your face. This treatment will also make you look brighter and give your complexion a lovely glow.6.Garlic
Garlic is an antiviral, antifungal, antiseptic and antioxidant agent that can help in the fast treatment of pimples. At the same time it also contains sulphur, which makes it very effective when used for pimple treatment. Take a fresh garlic clove and cut it into two pieces. Now rub the garlic on the pimples and leave it for five minutes before washing the skin with lukewarm water. When the process is repeated several times a day it helps the pimples to disappear quickly and that too without leaving ugly scars. On the other hand, eating one raw garlic clove daily can also help a lot as it helps in the purification of the blood. But it is recommended not to eat too much of raw garlic as it can upset the stomach.7.Baking soda
Baking soda is an effective way to quickly get rid of pimples. Also as baking soda is free of harsh chemicals it will not cause any kind of skin irritation and even people having sensitive skin can also use it. Make a thick paste by mixing one teaspoon of baking soda with some water or lemon juice. Before applying the paste wash the skin properly to get rid of all the dirt. Now, apply the paste on your slightly damp skin and allow it to dry for a few minutes. Never keep baking soda on your skin for a longer time period as it can cause dryness. Finally wash the face with warm water and apply some moisturizer. Repeat the process twice a day for quick result.
8.Peppermint
Peppermint is really a powerful herb that can help in getting rid of ugly pimples very fast. The calming and soothing effect of menthol present in peppermint help in reducing the irritation and redness caused by pimples. At the same time the antibacterial and antiviral properties present in peppermint help in killing the bacteria that causes the formation of pimples. Take some peppermint leaves and crush them to extract its juice. Now apply this juice gently on the pimples. Leave it for ten minutes before washing the skin with cold water. If fresh peppermint leaves are not available you can use peppermint oil, which contains a number of vitamins and essential fatty acids. Take two to three drops of peppermint oil and apply it over the pimples. Massage the oil for a few minutes and then rinse with water.9.Cucumber
Cucumber is a rich source of vitamins such as A, C, E and potassium that help in the treatment of pimples. At the same time the cooling and soothing effect of cucumber on the skin will also help a lot. Take one or two fresh cucumbers and cut them into pieces and soak them in water for about an hour. The nutrients, such as vitamin A, potassium and chlorophyll present in the cucumber will get transferred in the water. Strain the water and drink it. You can also use this water to wash your face. Else you can make a face mask by grinding one cucumber. Apply this mask on your face and allow it dry for fifteen minutes. Wash your skin with clean warm water. This treatment will help in cleaning the skin pores and taking out the dirt and bacteria present in the oil glands.10.Papaya
Papaya is a good source of vitamin A and an antioxidant vitamin which can help in the treatment of pimples. You can use the juice of raw papaya to treat pimples in natural manner and that too without any side effects. Crush the raw papaya pieces to extract its juice and then apply it over the pimples. The exfoliating capability present in papaya will remove the dead skin cells and your skin will become free of clogged pores. At the same time the enzymes present in papaya will help in reducing the inflammation and making your skin soft and smooth. At the same time you can also eat ripe papaya to get benefitted from various nutrients present in it.
These are the Top 10 home remedies to get rid of pimples, purely natural and cannot harm your skin and doesn't cause any side effects.....
Live healthy...!♥ ♥ ♥
Tuesday, 4 June 2013
5 Golden rules on how to flirt with a girl part 1
As we all are boys, we know how to flirt with girls and I'm going to explain some known or unknown tricks for you guys..Flirting is a common activity done by male or female to impress the person who they like to spend time with....
These are some common tips for flirting but be careful don't depend totally on this tips as this tips are suitable for some situations only!!
1. Start flirting with her online
Most guys feel shy to start a conversation with a girl face to face. If you're wondering "How to flirt with a girl if facing her makes me nervous?" -don't worry; turn to online chat (even if you know your girl in real life).Not having to face or directly talk to the girl you like takes the pressure off to a great extent and helps you be yourself, which is the first step of flirting succesfully.
2. Never show desperation while flirting with a girl
Nothing turns girls off more than under-confident desperation. I've already talked about this in the discussion on how to impress a girl.It's equally pertinent to the one on how to flirt with girls.Don't be apologetic for taking her time (girls hate that). Don't ping her saying "HI". Ping her saying, "Hi XYZ! How're you doing?" In case she doesn't reply the first time you ping her, never use the name opening line the next time. Start by something like, "Hey XYZ! The ABC video you'd shared was hilarious. Where did you find it?" It shows you're not talking to her because you're desperate, but because you've got something real to say.You get the poing.
3. Don't give it ALL
A corollary of poing #2 is - don't be her dog. You're flirting with your girl; you're not her boyfriend yet. You need to attract her first, before you show her how responsible you are. So while flirting with a girl,don't be the oh-so-caring I'll-do-anything-for-you-including-daily-chores man-in-waiting of hers - that can wait for life after marriage. :P For now,that kind of behaviour will make her like you as a friend and a pet - not as a man she feels attracted to.
4. Complimenting her is a must
If you want to successfully flirt with a girl - especially an Indian girl - striking a balance between sounding hungry and sounding bold is key.Don't start with, "Hey! You're looking hot in that photo you recently posted." On the other hand, if it has been a week that you've started talking/chatting with her and you haven't actually gotten around to complimenting her even once yet, chances are you're not going anywhere. Compliments don't always have to be on her looks. And they need to sound natural,casual and confident. Which brings me to.........
5. Test waters continuously while flirting with a girl
Each girl has her distinct level of comfort with flirting. Some stop talking to you if you call them hot, while some feel offended if you don't. Continuously test her limits while flirting with a girl. Try a hing,like,"You're the most interesting girl I know." If she responds favourably, after a few days try, "Of late I've started looking forward to you coming online every day." If that goes ok too,try, "If you were not so busy,I'd have loved to go for a coffee with you sometime." You get the poing. You need to be bold enough to hold her interest, while making sure you don't offend her.
What are the golden rules which worked when you started flirting with your girl? Let me know by leaving a comment....♥ ♥ ♥
Saturday, 25 May 2013
How to use Aloe Vera plant to treat "Acne"
Many mothers keep it on hand to soothe sunburns, blisters and other skin conditions. The sap soaks into the skin and keeps away infection while soothing pain and making the skin supple again. These characteristics also make aloe vera a popular treatment for acne. Though not all acne responds to aloe vera treatment, the sap is said to help clear the skin and rid it of scarring.
You can see a short video on how to extract sap from aloe vera plant.
Things you'll need:
- Mild exfoliant
- Cool water
- Towel
- Aloe vera plant (of an inch)
- Sharp knife
- Mild skin soap or cleanser
How to use:
1 Cleanse your face with a mild exfoliant.Gently rub the particles over your skin and rinse them away with cool water, patting your face dry with a towel. This removes dead cells, unclogs pores and cleans the face.
2 Pinch a leaf from an aloe vera plant; you need no more than an inch of plant for each application. Slice it open along one side with a very sharp knife. Spread the leaf open, sap side up.
3 Scoop some clear sap from the leaf with your fingers. Spread it over your face in a thin layer, rubbing it in until you can't see it anymore. Let it soak in overnight and rinse it away the next morning with cool water.
4 Apply aloe vera this way each night before bed. Exfoliate only every three days; the rest of the time use a mild facial soap or skin cleanser before application.
Use this treatment daily and the results are identified by your friends.
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